Finally....A surgery update!

Well, I am alive! Thank goodness! The surgery went well. It was longer than expected and my doctor said that it was a lot worse than what he had thought. It was a complete hysterectomy which included taking out my uterus, and both ovaries. My doctor told Ryan, while I was in recovery, that there was no way I would have ever been able to get pregnant with medication or even carry a child with IVF (in-vitro fertilization) with how my ovaries and uterus looked. At first, that was hard to hear but it was a definite answer to my prayers and to the blessings which I had received prior to the surgery. Because it was a lot worse than expected I was told that I have to be down for ateast 3 weeks!! I have almost 2 wks (tom. Tuesday) down and 1 more to go before I can slowly start to do things and start to drive! I am really trying to take it easy, but I have to say it is SO hard to just lay here and not do anything. I have read a few books, become a pro at sudoku and have started writing my kids adoption stories that I will put in a book for them one day. I am trying to stay positive and keep my spirits up. My hormones are going crazy and the hot flashes are HORRIBLE!! If anyone has advice on those I would LOVE to hear about it. I don't want to have to go on medication, but these hot flashes are keeping me up at night and I never realized how good I slept at night until now. I know that my body is in shock right now and that it is going to take some time to figure itself out, but if anyone has any advice, please leave a comment I would love to hear about it. If I do need to go on hormones we have already talked about doing bio-identical, we have read about them and heard that they are great!
As of now, thank you to everyone for your thoughts, concerns and help. From my family to yours, thank you.

3 comments:

Nichols Family said...

Kerri! Hang in there! Hope your next week is more enjoyable! I've heard about bio-identical hormones and heard they work awesome. I don't know anything more though. Hope you get some sleep!

Kath said...

Hey Kerri, My stepmom takes the herb black-kohosh for hot flashes and says it works miracles!! It's just an herb, over the counter. You might want to give it a try!! :) I'm glad to hear it was the right decision and that you are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel!

-kathryn

Heidi said...

Hi Kerri, hey I'm so glad that the surgery went well and you are recovering. I want to bring you dinner one night. I know the ward has been scheduling this but will you check and see if there is a night you know of that isn't covered and I'll be calling you soon to find out when I can bring something by.